20 Questions To Ask Yourself Today


Have you ever been in a season of change where it caused you to question who you are, what you want, and what’s next? Here are 20 questions to ask yourself to help you figure out who you are, what’s next, and what you want.

Questions To Get To Know Yourself

If I could go back in time and ask myself these questions when I was going through my breakup and figuring out my life, I would. The great thing about reflecting is that you can help others with the season of life you used to be in.

So, if you’re looking for questions to ask yourself, here’s a place to start.

  1. What brings me joy?
  2. Is this situation/experience hurting me or is it helping me?
  3. If this situation/experience is helping you, why? What are the key themes you are noticing about this experience that seem helpful?
  4. If the situation/experience seem hurtful, why do you feel that way and what can you learn from it?
  5. What are some goals you have for yourself in the next 3 months?
  6. How can you reach those goals and who can you share those goals with to help inspire you?
  7. What ways has God showed you he loves you?
  8. What do I like most about myself and why?
  9. What areas would I like to change about myself and why?
  10. What is that one hype song that will turn your sad day into a great day?
  11. 5 Things I’m thankful for and why?
  12. What are some long-term goals you have for yourself?
  13. How would you accomplish those long-term goals?
  14. Where is my ideal place to recover after a long day?
  15. What motivates you?
  16. What do you need to keep moving forward?
  17. What is that one dream that you always wanted to do and why?
  18. What skills have God given you and how can you use them?
  19. What is your vision for the next 5 years and how can you get there?
  20. What does God say about you?


These questions to ask yourself are available for you even if you aren’t going through a hard season. And if you are going through a hard season, these questions can be helpful, especially if you are questioning who you are, what you want, or what’s next.

I once said, “the hardest moments of our lives become the moments that were destined for more”.

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Ashley Marie

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